Sorry for my absence, life has been hectic and work and coaching, there isn't enough time for a lot of blogging, Mistress S is also very stressed at her job so while we are still living our FLR lifestyle it is a bit timid these days. I still am expected to obey and take care of the household cleaning duties as well as laundry and all other things. Mistress S just doesn't have time these days to be involved in the supervision of that. I am fine with that I love that she can focus on her things and I take the time to take care of the chores she wants no part of.
Of course the playful servant always wants that submissive behavior to be enforced and pushed on me. However understanding that our FLR is real and not a fantasy game I completely get why that isn't what its all about.
Lets get this straight she still commands and I still obey but some of the rules she set forth that I follow, like kneeling while asking a question and items of that nature, seem to get lost in our life at times. I forget to do them and she doesn't enforce when I forget to do them. I am still subservient to her and when she wants something done I do it but there isn't a formal aspect to it most of the time.
I guess the point to this blog is that in our life, our normal life, she is still the leader and I am the follower, I keep the house clean and make sure that when she wants to wear something its ready to go. But besides that there isn't a lot of the day to day dominant acts that she is known to use on me. Its just the natural way of things now. She hasn't laid me on the bed and used the crop in quite a while now, and there have been times she could and would have in the past. If I make a mistake she brings it up and I try to do better. The playful part of me misses that portion but the realist in me knows that this is just life for us, two people deeply in love where one happens to be in charge, the other obeys but the leader doesn't need to flaunt it always.
So now that we are in our empty nest and have spent a few months in solid FLR with no kids around things have settled down. Don't get me wrong I still absolutely love my life as her servant and love those Fridays nights where she says, "You will be getting up early and cleaning, wear this and wake me at the proper time." I also love every moment I can serve her and just love the look on her face when she comes home and doesn't have to do housework, her smile is worth all the work involved on my end.
Our life is awesome for us but it probably doesn't make for great reading these days. That's ok I will still fill you in when something happens but in addition I think the biggest lesson is that our FLR, real life, and day to day life have found its common ground level. It isn't all of the fantasy things I thought about lying in bed all those years where I didn't have the opportunity to live it but in many ways its better.
I am not second class citizen, I do have a voice and I live a pretty normal life filled with absolute love however I still must obey the person who owns me body, heart and soul.
This is the FLR she wants and I am following her lead with a smile on my face.
As I said when things of note happen I will update everyone, in between I will write about the real world of FLR, the love the lifestyle and the everyday events that make it up. For those of you who don't live it you might find interest in it, for those of you who do live it the same style as us might find commond ground interest but if your style of FLR is a lot more on the kinky side compared to ours then my blog probably won't excite you so much. I do thank everyone who reads and welcome any comments.
