Still feels different

So a month of marriage and things still feel a bit different.

I have set into a comfort zone knowing that she is permanently in charge, not that she wasn't before but the change has left us both with a comfortable and secure feeling I believe.

This Saturday we will be meeting up with friends. A similar couple to us, a dominant woman and submissive man. The two of us guys have met and grown a friendship but this will be the first time the girls meet each other, or either of us guys meet the others wife. In some ways I wonder how one treats the dominant wife of a friend. The easy answer is just as any other friend but there is that side of me that wonders if in time there would be some expectation to be somewhat obedient to her. Not the same as my Mistress but more in a sign of respect. I guess the next easy answer is to not think about things like that and let my Mistress decide things like that over time. Anyways it will be a fun time and I am looking forward to it.

Also recently I have been reading about some couples that live more extreme in their Female Led Relationship than us. One has separate bedrooms so that the woman may have free time with other men while he is safe and secure in a separate room, close enough to hear what is going on but far enough away to not bother her.

I have been thinking a lot about this lately. Not because what they are doing is wrong, no if they are both happy then more power to them. But more about a comment he made about not being able to touch his wife as she prefers others. I will say that that man is much stronger than me. I obey my wife but we are also best friends, if I was set aside and not wanted for love. If my wife wanted to be touched and loved but not by me and if I didn't get to feel the loving touch of my wife how would I react? I would be devastated. I am not sure if that is a sign of weakness on my part or not but I just couldn't handle it.

I suppose if there was ever a time where she wanted to experiment with someone else I would accept it, I obey her and want her to be happy, as long as we were still the inseparable twosome that we are. I can't stand to be away from her for a day let alone sleep in a separate room knowing she is close by but prefers to be with someone else.

I guess in the end we all have our own ways and things that make us happy. I know by reading what that guy said he is happy with the relationship but I can't see anyway I could be in the same type of relationship. When you have an unequal relationship a lot of thought and communication has to go into it to make sure each person is happy.

I guess the moral of this is that there are many different aspects of a female led relationship that make us all different, everyone has their ideas on what makes them happy and I know that what is good for us probably might not be the same for another couple. I am learning not to judge others and certainly haven't in this case but when you put yourself in anothers shoes wow it can be eye opening.