A different take

First of all the Easter season made for a busy time for us.

Happy Easter to everyone who celebrates and for those that don't hope you had a great day also.

After reading I'm hers and Femdom 101 blogs. About the woman who found out her Daughter in Law was going to be the boss of her son. I am left with some mixed emotions.

First as an advocate for a female led relationship I would like to make that woman understand that all that matters is that her son is happy, that the couple lives a love filled marriage and it lasts forever. If what makes them happy is to have her in charge, then that is what counts.

I know better though. Many people won't and can't understand or accept this type of lifestyle. Is it because of the kink (if it exists in the relationship), is it because it's the opposite of what society has taught is the correct way to be, is it because it's different and in the mind of most different is bad? Who knows but all I know is it is right for us. Its right for a lot of the people I have had the pleasure of meeting here in the land of blogging. And maybe that will just have to do. Yes I would love the chance to explain to that woman that what her son is going to experience is exactly what he wants out of life but there is a good chance she, or if she does learn to understand, other will never get it. Never accept it or never realize why it is a viable way to live.

I suppose for me to try to understand I have to think about other different lifestyles. Maybe gay/lesbian relationships or polygamist relationships. I might not be able to understand the appeal but what I know is that they do it because it is right for them. That's what matters.

There will always be those that fight against that isn't considered "normal". We all know the plight of gay/lesbian couples and their fight for equal rights. My guess is that if FLR's were more prominent we might face some (not as much because its still a female/male relationship) hurdles for acceptance with the general public. Again I am not comparing the plights of the two groups just making that point that something that isn't "normal" will tend to be looked down on and more likely not understood.

While I think it's a great idea to educate that woman who contacted Kathy, it's also important to realize some people can't be made to understand.

I would love to go to a top of a mountain and scream to the world what I am, what our relationship is and why it is the best thing that ever happened to me. But that isn't the reality of it. Maybe one day it will be but not currently. I'm hers was a bit concerned about a recent post of his and how might that woman perceive his post if she saw it. I guess all I can say is it is what it is. We are what we are. There are some parts of this type of relationship that maybe not will understand. I guess all we can do is ask those people to understand that it's what we want and please respect it. Maybe some parts don't need to be understood by all.